Adult life can be so serious. we are faced with many life changeing and sometime threatening decisions and we are expected to act fast. it's even more difficult when you are a sista; society expect so much from us that we literally walk on our toes for the rest of our lives. my mother is always drumming it into my head whenever im in my rebellous mood 'i didnt train you to be like this o' she always.
i feel the African setting is particularly tough on women. you are expected to be at your husband's beck and call, be a super mum, your in-laws nko, forget it. well they can all bite me because im not in for that. i do things my way. as far as im concerned im the main event, the show stopper (apologies to Shawn Micheals of WWE).
my pastor always says life is meant for living, loving and laughing. i like the laughing part.
am i being a philosopher queen today? that's the joy of writing, well in this case typing, your thoughts can take you to places you didnt even intend to go to.

here's wishing all the wonderful mums out there a happy belated mothers day. i think every day is mother's day because we rule the world!

had some visitors this evening. so fagged out playing hostess. must go to bed.