Happy Good Friday. i'm always in a good mood on Fridays especially the ones that is a public hols:) Those days of feeling under the weather are gone thankfully.
Remember i told you about the new relief staff, well it turns out that her husband is not only cheating on her but beating her as well. so yesterday, we initiated her into the sista's chatroom and gave her a lesson or two on how to stand on her grounds. i mean, this is a sista with assets; she has the 3 bs ( for the uninitiated, the 3 b stands for black, beautiful and brainy) and one no-gooder is just somewhere pounding on her like she's worthless.
the first thing we did was to give her advice on her to empower herself. i mean gone are those days when a woman's place is in the kitchen. she has to take control of her life and rebuild her self confidence then she can take it from there.
at the end of the day, she resolved to leave the bastard, that wasnt part of our advise though but she said that they have been living apart for two years now and all the while the guy has been living with his girlfriend while she has been hanging unto a marriage that is already in the gutters for the 'children's sake'.
mistake no 1 never hang unto a marriage for the children's sake. be there for your sake because there will come a time when the kids will be all grown up and leave the house then what would you do?? by then you would be old and grey and your whole life would have been spent on 'the children'. Like i've always said life is for living, loving and laughing. there's no point in being all bitter and resentful all your life just because of another human being.
now dont get me wrong, im not an advocate of divorce but when every thing has failed and the man is out there enjoying his life with another woman what should a woman do?
Today is good friday, we should take time to reflect on what Jesus did for us at the cross.
have a beautiful long weekend. lol.
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